Birthday Time

This may be the quietest birthday I have spend in many years. I was thinking about what it means to have a birthday. Well, obviously, it means that I am still alive. You only have birhtdays if you are living. The dead don’t have birthdays. I am grateful to still be here.
Having another birthday also means that my time of life is growing less. There are many more birthdays behind me than are likely to be in front of me. None of us know how long we will be here, but birthdays have a way of slipping up on us as a reminder that another part of life is passing.
Having a birthday also causes me to stop and ask what my legacy will be. What have I done with life that will make a difference for those who come after me? How have I lived and expressed my faith in God in this time? What have I done out of Christlike compassion for others?
Here I am, a day older which makes me a year older. I was born on this day, but having a birthday is not the essence of life. Living is the essence, and I want my life to count.; No, at best I might get a footnote or a single line in someone’s history of the places I have been. I will not be featured in some tome of Western Civilzation, but being here is enough. I’m thankful to share another birthday.

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Father’s Day

Today, I simply want to stop to pay tribute to my dad. He died just over 14 years ago at the age of 88. I feel blessed that I had him that long and am thankful for all the good things we shared. He could say “Yes” to me with hopefulness, but he could say “No” and make it stick. Some of our best days were sitting in an old fishing boat in the middle of the river together. He taught me fishing and taught me life.
I am thankful also that my dad was a Christian who tried to live his faith. He was not sanctimonious soul who pretended to be something he was not. He was a genuine person for whom faith was essential in his way of living.
Thanks, Dad, for all you meant to me and still do. And, thank you God for supplying me with my dad.

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Fatherhood Twenty-Six Years Later

Our son will soon reach his twenty-sixth birthday. It has been a fascinating joureny from the time we learned my wife was pregnant until we have reached this point in our family journey. There are great memories of getting to hold a small bundle in the hospital deliver room and then to hand him to his mother for the first time. His first Christmas, we placed him under the Christmas tree to acknowledge he was the best present of all, and by the second Christmas we considered putting the tree in the playpen to keep him from pulling it over on himself.
From that point, we watched the adventure develop through the experiences of playmates, friends, tee-ball, recreation baseball, basketball, and swimming. He and I fished together and shared at times the joys of catching something. I observed as a faith in Christ began to grow in his life and shared in the privilege (as pastor) of baptizing him into the church.
Life moved quickly through education with his high school, college, and seminary graduations. Now he is six hours away working in a church he loves and fishing from his first canoe. To my son, I say “Thank you for the privileges of sharing in your journey.

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Son’s ordination

I am in western North Carolina to participate in the ordination of our son to the ministry. It’s an exciting reality filled with prospects and apprehensions. I pray for him and hope that things will turn out well. Ministry is not an easy place these days. I know after 40 years of ministry. Join me in prayers for him.

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Losing another friend

Yesterday, I learned of the death of another friend. Kenneth Michael was a member of a church I pastored for eight years. In those years, he was my son’s first guitar teacher, was willing to take vacations to travel for camps and mission trips with young people, and worked with troubled young people who had entered the juvenile justice system of Virginia.

Kenny’s life had known more tragedy than most of us want to ever know. He and his wife had twin sons, both born with heart defects. The first lived less than a year, and the second died before his eighteenth birthday. Divorce had left him without a spouse to share his journey. Yet, his testimony was always one of gratitude that God had helped him to cope with the unimaginable realities that had come.

I loved to argue politics with him and often to play the devil’s advocate. Ken loved to defend conservative causes. As an independent, it was fun to sometimes poke holes in some of the theories and ways. Laughing together sometimes was good therapy for both of us.

As I shall miss other friends gone to be with Christ, I shall miss Kenny. He is with his boys now, and those of us who are left behind need the spirit of God for our journeys as well.

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Shrove Tuesday

I just came back from a youth-sponsored pancake supper at church. It’s an interesting concept to indulge in one last excess before Ash Wednesday and then move into the season of abstinence and spiritual reflection. What is even more interesting is that this supper was aimed at supporting the summer ministries of the youth of the church. We need to consider our ways in these moments, but even more we need to support young people who want to accomplish something for Christ.

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One Month In

Today is the one month anniversary of being the Interim Pastor of Hampton Baptist Church. Being an interim pastor is a new career move one can only risk when you know you are eligible for Social Security if you need it, but I am loving every minute of this.

I get to be in a church in a time when everything is not solidly nailed down. There is uncertainty, creativity, anxiety, and an openness to the future that is refreshing. I am welcomed as one who will be there for a little while, but it is an intense time for them and for me. It’s good to do this.

It is refreshing to be respected as an elder statesman in the church who has no longterm stake in the congregation and at the same time being one who is invested in even the smallest decision. I love the hopefulness around this time.

I am grateful to God for this opportunity and grateful to the folks at Hampton Baptist for treating me so well. I feel reborn in ministry in this cycle of events.

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